This quote is deeply resonating.
If you are depressed,
you are living in the past,
If you are anxious,
you are living in the future.
If you are at peace,
you are living in the present.
-Lao Tzu
Sunday, March 17, 2013
Friday, March 15, 2013
Timeless Relationship Wisdom
(Hey everyone! I saw this on yahoo tonight, had to share.)
Words to Love By
The highest form of love
is to be the protector
of another person's solitude.
Rainer Maria Rilke
It is not a lack of love,
but a lack of friendship
that makes unhappy marriages.
Friedrich Nietzsche
What do we live for,
if it is not to make life
less difficult for each other?
George Eliot
Love me
when I least deserve it,
because that's when I really need it.
Swedish Proverb
Marriage is
three parts love
and seven parts forgiveness of sins.
Lao Tzu
Everything that irritates us
about others can lead us
to an understanding of ourselves.
Carl Jung
I love you not only for what you are,
but for what I am
when I'm with you.
Elizabeth Barrett Browning
The best way to find out
if you can trust somebody
is to trust them.
Ernest Hemingway
We must be our own
before we can be
another's
Ralph Waldo Emerson
I love her
and that's the beginning
and end of everything
F. Scott Fritzgerald
The course
of true love
never did run smooth
William shakespeare
Love
is no assignment
for cowards
Ovid
No man is truly married
until he understands
every word his wife is not saying
Unknown
Words to Love By
The highest form of love
is to be the protector
of another person's solitude.
Rainer Maria Rilke
It is not a lack of love,
but a lack of friendship
that makes unhappy marriages.
Friedrich Nietzsche
What do we live for,
if it is not to make life
less difficult for each other?
George Eliot
Love me
when I least deserve it,
because that's when I really need it.
Swedish Proverb
Marriage is
three parts love
and seven parts forgiveness of sins.
Lao Tzu
Everything that irritates us
about others can lead us
to an understanding of ourselves.
Carl Jung
I love you not only for what you are,
but for what I am
when I'm with you.
Elizabeth Barrett Browning
The best way to find out
if you can trust somebody
is to trust them.
Ernest Hemingway
We must be our own
before we can be
another's
Ralph Waldo Emerson
I love her
and that's the beginning
and end of everything
F. Scott Fritzgerald
The course
of true love
never did run smooth
William shakespeare
Love
is no assignment
for cowards
Ovid
No man is truly married
until he understands
every word his wife is not saying
Unknown
Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Read this everytime you want to give up
For those of you who haven't heard the story of Colonel Sanders...it can be very motivating. Here I offer it, as told by Tony Robbins in his book "Letters to a Friend". Enjoy!*****
The key to success is to decide what's most important to you and then take massive action each day to make it better, even when it doesn't look as if it's working.
I'll give you an example. Have you ever heard of a guy named Colonel Sanders? Of course you have. How did Colonel Sanders become such an unbelievable success? Was it because he was born wealthy? Was his family rich? Did they send him to a top university like Harvard? Maybe he was successful because he started his business when he was really young. Are any of these true?
The answer is no. Colonel Sanders didn't begin to fulfill his dream until he was 65 years old! What drove him to finally take action? He was broke and alone. He got his first social security cheque for $105, and he got mad but instead of blaming society or just writing congress a nasty note, he started asking himself, "What could I do that would be valuable for other people? What could I give back?" He started thinking about what he had that was valuable to others.
His first answer was, "Well, I have this chicken, recipe, everyone seems to love! What if I sold my chicken recipe to restaurants? Could I make money doing that?" Then he immediately thought, "That's ridiculous. Selling my recipe won't even pay the rent." And he got a new idea: "What if I not only sold them my recipe but also showed them how to cook the chicken properly? What if the chicken was so good that it increased their business? If more people come to see them and they make more chicken sales, maybe they will give me a percentage of those additional sales."
Many people have great ideas. But Colonel Sander was different. He was a man who didn't just think of great things to do. He put them into action. He went and started knocking on doors, telling each restaurant owner his story: "I have a great chicken recipe, and I think if you use it, it'll increase your sales. And I'd like to get a percentage of that increase."
Well, many people laughed in his face. They said, "Look, old man, get out of here. What are you wearing that stupid white suit for?" Did Colonel Sanders give up? Absolutely not. He had the #1 key to success; I call itpersonal power. Personal power means being persistence in taking action: Every time you do something, you learn from it, and you find a way to do it better next time. Colonel Sanders certainly used his personal power! Instead of feeling bad about the last restaurant that had rejected his idea, he immediately start focusing on how to tell his story more effectively and get better results from the next restaurant.
How many times do you think Colonel Sanders heard no before getting the answer he wanted? He was refused 1,009 times before he heard his first yes. His spent two years driving across America in his old, beat-up car, sleeping in the back seat in his rumpled white suit, getting up each day eager to share his idea with someone new. Often, the only food he had was a quick bite of the samples he was preparing for perspective buyers. How many people do you think would have gone for 1,009 no's - two years of no's! - and kept on going? Very few. That's why there is only one Colonel Sanders. I think most people wouldn't get passed twenty no's, much less a hundred or a thousand! Yet this is sometimes what it takes to succeed.
If you look at any of the most successful people in history, you will found this common thread: They would not be denied. They would not accept no. They would not allow anything to stop them from making their vision, their goal, a reality. Did you know that Walt Disney was turned down 302 times before he got financing for his dream of creating "The Happiest Place on Earth"? All the banks thought he was crazy. He wasn't crazy; he was a visionary and, more important, he was committed to making that vision a reality. Today, millions of people have shared in "the joy of Disney", a world like no other, a world launched by the decision of one man.
Mayonnaise Jar & Two Beers!
Saw this story today and I had to share it.
When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the two beers.
A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him.
When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.
He then asked the students if the jar was full.
They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly.
The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls.
He then asked the students again if the jar was full.
They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.
Of course, the sand filled up everything else.
He asked once more if the jar was full.
The students responded with a unanimous 'yes.'
The professor then produced two beers from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space between the sand.
The students laughed..
'Now,' said the professor as the laughter subsided, 'I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.
The golf balls are the important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.
The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and your car..
The sand is everything else---the small stuff.
'If you put the sand into the jar first,' he continued, 'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.
The same goes for life.
If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important to you.
Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Spend time with your children.
Spend time with your parents.
Visit with grandparents.
Take your spouse out to dinner.
Play another 18.
There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal.
Take care of the golf balls first---the things that really matter.
Set your priorities.
The rest is just sand.
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the beer represented.
The professor smiled and said, 'I'm glad you asked.'
The beer just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of beers with a friend.
A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him.
When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.
He then asked the students if the jar was full.
They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly.
The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls.
He then asked the students again if the jar was full.
They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.
Of course, the sand filled up everything else.
He asked once more if the jar was full.
The students responded with a unanimous 'yes.'
The professor then produced two beers from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space between the sand.
The students laughed..
'Now,' said the professor as the laughter subsided, 'I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.
The golf balls are the important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.
The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and your car..
The sand is everything else---the small stuff.
'If you put the sand into the jar first,' he continued, 'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.
The same goes for life.
If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important to you.
Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Spend time with your children.
Spend time with your parents.
Visit with grandparents.
Take your spouse out to dinner.
Play another 18.
There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal.
Take care of the golf balls first---the things that really matter.
Set your priorities.
The rest is just sand.
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the beer represented.
The professor smiled and said, 'I'm glad you asked.'
The beer just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of beers with a friend.
Monday, November 5, 2012
A Great Story
Hi everyone. Sorry I haven't written anything lately. Haven't found anything I felt passionate about to share. Until today. There's a simple & yet great story I want to pass on.
There was once a young man named Jason. He lived in a small modest home on top of a hill. Jason was a normal guy who had his ups & downs. Like everybody else.
One day, Jason was awoken by loud noises. He looked outside his window. And saw a huge construction team. He saw bulldozers, carpenters with loud saws, & gravel trucks. This crew was apparently working on the empty lot next door.
For months, this crew was working day & night. This infuriated Jason. The crew was making a huge mess next to his home. He couldn't sleep with the non stop construction.
Then finally one day, the noise stopped. The crew finished this big beautiful home Seeing the new home made Jason more angry. Jason couldn't wait till the new home owner moved in. He wanted to give this a guy a peace of his mind. Jason waited, and one day his doorbell rang. It was Jason's uncle. The uncle told Jason "nephew, you have been so good to me, that I wanted to leave you a gift." The uncle immediately handed Jason a pair of keys. Jason asked what these keys were for. The uncle said, for the beautiful home next door.
Guys, PERSPECTIVE is a great gift we all have. Next time when you feel something isn't to your liking change perspective. You'll feel better.
" One with a kind heart, will find paradise wherever he travels"
Unknown
There was once a young man named Jason. He lived in a small modest home on top of a hill. Jason was a normal guy who had his ups & downs. Like everybody else.
One day, Jason was awoken by loud noises. He looked outside his window. And saw a huge construction team. He saw bulldozers, carpenters with loud saws, & gravel trucks. This crew was apparently working on the empty lot next door.
For months, this crew was working day & night. This infuriated Jason. The crew was making a huge mess next to his home. He couldn't sleep with the non stop construction.
Then finally one day, the noise stopped. The crew finished this big beautiful home Seeing the new home made Jason more angry. Jason couldn't wait till the new home owner moved in. He wanted to give this a guy a peace of his mind. Jason waited, and one day his doorbell rang. It was Jason's uncle. The uncle told Jason "nephew, you have been so good to me, that I wanted to leave you a gift." The uncle immediately handed Jason a pair of keys. Jason asked what these keys were for. The uncle said, for the beautiful home next door.
Guys, PERSPECTIVE is a great gift we all have. Next time when you feel something isn't to your liking change perspective. You'll feel better.
" One with a kind heart, will find paradise wherever he travels"
Unknown
Wednesday, October 24, 2012
When We Change
The other night, I was watching a favorite show of mine, The Avatar series. At the end of the episode there was an inspirational line I wanted to write about.
"When we've hit our lowest point, we are open to the greatest change"
After hearing this, I said to myself, what a deep and great message this is! Whatever writer at Nickelodeon wrote this, I say thank you for this gift and inspiration. This line is a universal truth, a law of life. Think about it, haven't we all experienced some of our greatest changes, greatest growths, physically, mentally, and spiritually after a low point?
When we hit rock bottom, is when great change occurs. When we go bankrupt, we change our financial habits. When one survives a health scare, we change health habits. When one goes through a bad breakup, we change our mate selection process.
Pain from these low points is the ultimate change agent. A lot of people go to great lengths to avoid it. I feel when you do this though, you're taking less risks. Numbing yourself to life and it's great joys. Pain is purposeful. It's purpose to humble, to drive, to lift. I hope everyone will realize the next time one hits a low point, it's just the worlds way of changing you in a better direction.
Thank you again
"When we've hit our lowest point, we are open to the greatest change"
After hearing this, I said to myself, what a deep and great message this is! Whatever writer at Nickelodeon wrote this, I say thank you for this gift and inspiration. This line is a universal truth, a law of life. Think about it, haven't we all experienced some of our greatest changes, greatest growths, physically, mentally, and spiritually after a low point?
When we hit rock bottom, is when great change occurs. When we go bankrupt, we change our financial habits. When one survives a health scare, we change health habits. When one goes through a bad breakup, we change our mate selection process.
Pain from these low points is the ultimate change agent. A lot of people go to great lengths to avoid it. I feel when you do this though, you're taking less risks. Numbing yourself to life and it's great joys. Pain is purposeful. It's purpose to humble, to drive, to lift. I hope everyone will realize the next time one hits a low point, it's just the worlds way of changing you in a better direction.
Thank you again
Thursday, October 11, 2012
Words
"Anyone who thinks that they are too small to make a difference has never tried to fall asleep with a mosquito in the room." Christie Todd Whitman
Hey everyone, today I wanted to debunk a myth, a cliche we've heard numerous times growing up. The saying that "Its not what you say, but how you say it that matters" This is only half true. It should really be restated as "the words you use and how you delivery them matters most."
This takes me back to a sociology class I took when I was 16. The professor gave an example of how diction, word choice can have an impactful response on people. He lectured about how some sociologist researchers conducted a survey about school prayer. There were two nearly identical surveys made. With the exception of one difference, the two surveys differed by only one word. One line in the survey asked "Do you think it's OK for schools to not allow school prayer?" This generated a majority response from people that it was alright for schools to not allow school prayer. The other survey asked "Do you think its OK for schools to forbid school prayer?" This survey, caused a backlash. Overwhelming majority responded with a no, and strong reactions! "How dare you FORBID school prayer!" "This is an injustice?" These are the ones I can write, there was more but I'd like to keep this blog clean as I can.
The only change in the survey guys, was just one simple word. From not allow to forbid. This one little shift caused a huge impact. This shows us that words are powerful, what we do say and how we say both matter. The great coaches, motivational speakers are masters of using the right words. They understand this phenomenon. I've seen speakers motivate, impact people about finances using the words building up to a critical mass. Speakers use, take action, peak performance, ultimate advantage, unlimited abundance of wealth! The word list can go on and on. Words create actions, so choose wisely. In the english language, there's only 100,000 positive words, compared to 200,000 negative words. This explains why we have so much depression, anger, resentment, and other negative feelings.
In closing, i hope everyone can take away from this about choosing a great word next time they're speaking to their significant other, their colleagues, their employees, their bosses, their children. The words you use in every interaction WILL make on some level, an impact on that other person's life and ultimately yours.
Thanks again
Hey everyone, today I wanted to debunk a myth, a cliche we've heard numerous times growing up. The saying that "Its not what you say, but how you say it that matters" This is only half true. It should really be restated as "the words you use and how you delivery them matters most."
This takes me back to a sociology class I took when I was 16. The professor gave an example of how diction, word choice can have an impactful response on people. He lectured about how some sociologist researchers conducted a survey about school prayer. There were two nearly identical surveys made. With the exception of one difference, the two surveys differed by only one word. One line in the survey asked "Do you think it's OK for schools to not allow school prayer?" This generated a majority response from people that it was alright for schools to not allow school prayer. The other survey asked "Do you think its OK for schools to forbid school prayer?" This survey, caused a backlash. Overwhelming majority responded with a no, and strong reactions! "How dare you FORBID school prayer!" "This is an injustice?" These are the ones I can write, there was more but I'd like to keep this blog clean as I can.
The only change in the survey guys, was just one simple word. From not allow to forbid. This one little shift caused a huge impact. This shows us that words are powerful, what we do say and how we say both matter. The great coaches, motivational speakers are masters of using the right words. They understand this phenomenon. I've seen speakers motivate, impact people about finances using the words building up to a critical mass. Speakers use, take action, peak performance, ultimate advantage, unlimited abundance of wealth! The word list can go on and on. Words create actions, so choose wisely. In the english language, there's only 100,000 positive words, compared to 200,000 negative words. This explains why we have so much depression, anger, resentment, and other negative feelings.
In closing, i hope everyone can take away from this about choosing a great word next time they're speaking to their significant other, their colleagues, their employees, their bosses, their children. The words you use in every interaction WILL make on some level, an impact on that other person's life and ultimately yours.
Thanks again
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